Using ZFS isn't surrendering control. Same as using parts of FreeBSD. Apple retains control because they don't have an obligation (or track record) of following the upstream.
For zfs, there's been a lot of improvements over the years, but if they had done the fork and adapt and then leave it alone, their fork would continue to work without outside control. They could pull in things from outside if they want, when they want; some parts easier than others.
For zfs, there's been a lot of improvements over the years, but if they had done the fork and adapt and then leave it alone, their fork would continue to work without outside control. They could pull in things from outside if they want, when they want; some parts easier than others.