what a bunch of bullshit, you'll never hear feminists lobbying for hiring more women in dangerous fields like off shore oil drilling (pay is great btw) or campaigning for equal pay for male pornstars
"We want equality! But only in x,y,z you can keep a,b,c lol"
I read a claim at one point
(I believe it was in responce to a comment similar to yours, Wherin the person who corresponds to you in the analogy gave the specific example of coal mining as a dangerous field)
And the claim was that women HAVE had harder times entering coal mining jobs, and for some time in some places were forebidden from doing so. (and that recently at the time of the claim in a certain area they were allowed to have that job.
However, I don't have a source for this, only a vague memory of what someone else said. As such, my memory may be faulty, and what they said might not have been entirely true. I don't know.
This is just something I thought could be potentially relevant.
That's because men are not systematically discriminated against in the way women are. These "won't someone please think of the men?!" arguments are tired and not good.
While I agree with your larger point, invoking a systematic trend to support a specific issue in a specific context is a logical fallacy [1].
The parent's comment, while crudely phrased, did actually highlight some legitimate counterexamples to the "only women are discriminated against" narrative.
choose one, otherwise companies would pay the lowest price for labor. The "problem" (not even sure why a difference in what fields people like to go into is a problem) is reflected in open source statistics; women just don't like to code as much as men do.
"We want equality! But only in x,y,z you can keep a,b,c lol"